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Want to learn how to flirt with women? Well,, cheesy pick-up lines are out, and aggressive flirting body language is in. In fact, even if you were the greatest poet in the world you couldn’t affect a woman nearly as much as if you use the right body-language cues. here are some reasons why this seduction tool is so powerful.
If you know how, you can signal your interest (in a subtle way) to a woman standing across the room from you. You might not know it, but women fear rejection just as much as most guys and by giving her signs of your interest, you make it more likely that she’ll be willing to interact with you.
So what exactly can you do to use your body language to get women’s attention and show them you’re open to interact and have some fun? here are three examples.
1. be Open and Mingle
What do you think when you’re in a crowded bar and you see a guy somewhere sitting all by himself? You’d think that this guy doesn’t want to interact, and is probably in the process of drowning his sorrows by drinking. Needless to say, not a single female will approach him. That’s why it’s very important to get into the crowd and get into the action, especially if you’re out on your own.
Check out the design of the place (including the women milling around). Make eye contact with women who are checking you out in return. Smile at women who catch your eye and say hi (say it as if you already knew them). this will help you keep an open and inviting body language and it has a huge impact on the impression you make on everyone around you.
2. Wink (But Not Like a Creep)
There’s a proper way of winking that won’t tag you as a creep. It’s actually very simple: Smile broadly before you wink. A genuine smile takes the creepiness out of winking.
This is particularly helpful if the woman is positionally inaccessible (like when she’s seated with her friends and you’re standing by the bar). Smiling and winking will effectively put you on her to-talk-to list for the night (if she doesn’t come right over and talk to you immediately!).
3. Signal your interest in what she’s saying.
Many guys aren’t very emotionally expressive in their faces. If you’re one of these men who were born with a ‘perennial poker face’, you can express your interest by tilting your head towards her.
All these body language cues help when you want to establish rapport with women.
